When you send out pure thoughts, untarnished by emotion, to the universe, that energy comes back to you purely and efficiently. To be able to send out pure thoughts you must have mastered the ego. It is the ego that says "I desire this," "I deserve that", and "it's not fair," but all these thoughts come from a perspective of selfishness and self-centeredness. In order to be able to create your own reality you must send out selfless thoughts that are completely untarnished by emotion. This does not mean that you have no thoughts for yourself; it means that you do not place yourself at the heart of those thoughts.
If you desire things so that people will think better of you or so that you can increase your pride, then you will not find the satisfaction with life that everyone is seeking. Your thoughts must be pure. When you send out your dreams into the universe you must do so with total nondependence. This means that you are not depending on the dream coming true for your personal happiness. You have to find satisfaction with your present life before you can successfully manifest other things in your life.
pg 105 dreams, andy baggot..
Sometimes this is not always easy to do in life. We don't always have pure thoughts to send out, but we can with practice. Keep trying and you will get better everyday. I am finding out that it is better to seek inner happiness, and to not be focused on material things for happiness. Seek your bliss, and the other things will appear to you.
Good luck and God bless..